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Excellent insight into addiction. I'll have to read it again because it often takes me longer than others to process complex information. I'm currently reading two of C. Jung’s essays on analytical psychology and must read each page twice, sometimes thrice. Worth it.

I recently hit five years clean and can relate to everything you said. I'm a new subscriber and look forward to rifling through the archive and forthcoming posts. I love your work.

I just started my newsletter here, and it’s been a rocky start, mostly incomplete thoughts. You might enjoy my first post. It’s about my early sobriety and discovering misconceptions of selfhood.

Check it—or don't. My feelings won't be hurt.

https://open.substack.com/pub/coreyswords/p/the-act?utm_source=direct&r=1s99nq&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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Corey, congrats on 5 years, such an important milestone! And props on starting your newsletter. Just read your piece and dug it. Please keep writing and sharing

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Thank you, Alex. And thanks for reading it.

Funny story: last week, I thought of giving up on Substack because it takes a lot of time to build up, and I didn't feel I could conjure ideas enough to write valuable essays and keep people interested and wanting to read more and subscribe, yadayada. Then I went to Substack’s office hours and had many great conversations. I read different newsletters and talked to more people. I gained a bunch of subscribers without writing anything new. To top it off, I found your ‘stack. It’s been a great week. And I have an idea for my forthcoming newsletter. The research is underway. Needless to say, I am not leaving.

I am looking forward to seeing what you write next.

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Dec 24, 2022Liked by Alex Olshonsky

Love the systems thinking / parasitic view. Very useful. Changing plans for 2023 holidays now. Heading to super dope rat theme park instead. Thanks Alex!

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See you at the rat park shortly, meet me at the waterslide

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Awesome piece and so much truth in it. As a substance abuse counselor who’s also been sober 15 years, it’s easy to teach about triggers, cravings, etc. It’s not so easy to help people address the psychosocial challenges that are at the root of addiction.

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Tamera, thank you for this and for the work that you do

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Beautiful piece. Thank you! It feels like *agency* bit is crucial in that graph -- it takes a lot of courage to break out of the continuous addiction reinforcement loop, especially when the systems are engineered to only loop you in. For example, TikTok was heavily engineered to keep users in the app for their monetary/engagement sakes and here a user often doesn't even feel like they have an agency to change it (a user cannot even change the topics of tiktoks he is shown so his available actions to stop the addiction are completely cutting off TikTok which requires a heavy load of self-determination and control).

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The agency bit is the trickiest part. TikTok is essentially a drug dealer with an extremely sketchy reputation who sells a safer, better product to its people in China. We get the free market version without limits or caps on what our youth consume, while in China, they serve their youth more STEM and educational content and place consumption limit on it. And now Meta and YouTube have deployed their reel products to compete with it, and those also won't have limits. So, to your point, it's a completely effed "arena" problem. And thank you so much, Svitlana

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This point is so important. Love your sub 🌟

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Dec 24, 2022Liked by Alex Olshonsky

Incredible stuff. As a former person severely addicted to cocaine and alcohol, now turned counsellor, it is always a beautiful thing to see this pivot from individual lack of will, to a societal, multi-faceted approach to healing.

Looking forward to following your journey down this path, and to see the intersections where my research takes me. 🙏

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I know that mix well - found out later that alcohol and coke bond together to form a compound addictive in itself. Congrats on turning your life around and now helping others. That's what it's all about. Thank you, Mark.

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Jan 3, 2023Liked by Alex Olshonsky

Could you recommend anything I could read on the alcohol / coke combo? I’ve a friend who’s having trouble with that particular selection, and I’ve wondered if the combination is part of what’s making his recovery more difficult.

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The binding combo is called "cocaethylene." This is prob a good starting point: https://americanaddictioncenters.org/alcoholism-treatment/mixing-cocaine-and-alcohol

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Perfect, thanks so much!

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I'm new to substack and this is the 1st piece of your work that I've read and I bloody loved it. As the daughter of an alcoholic and gambler, I've had an interest in addition psychology and this piece was brilliant!

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Medha, you just made my day, especially glad to hear it potentially helped you understand your father, those entanglements can be so complex. Thank you

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My pleasure. And It was my mum 🙂

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Now that's what they call a Freudian slip on my part, ha

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Dec 23, 2022Liked by Alex Olshonsky

Brilliant!

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Deep bow, Nicola!

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Gah so helpful and ....smoothing out the bumps in all these processes/ worlds.

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Yay :) and I know, sometimes all the different theories can be overwhelming

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Alex’s perspective makes sense. I intend to look deeper based on his research. Enlightening.

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Jan 19, 2023Liked by Alex Olshonsky

Great work Alex!

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Thanks so much Charles

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Great article, you excellently summarized many of the different facets and perspectives on addiction. I like the Vietnam case study as it shows there is a relationship between addiction and one's environment. I would check out the Rat Park experiment, as it shows the same insight in an animal. Biology does account some component of addiction with differences seen in neural pathways between those have addictions vs don't. I think it's less of a factor than the person's sense of meaning, environment, social relationships, trauma, and stress levels. I think if we find a way to tackle these factors clinically then relapse rates will be much lower than those of the current offerings.

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Thanks so much, Grant, and yes - I cite the Rat Park in the footnote :)

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Dec 24, 2022Liked by Alex Olshonsky

This is my favorite piece you've ever written. Well done!

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Dang, Kristin, this is awesome news, thank you (!)

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Psychotechnology is such a powerful technique for lasting sobriety. After I changed my underlying beliefs and assumptions to a more supportive posture, I experienced a profound liberation from the ties that bound me to escapism as a learned behavior. This article is incredibly informative. Thanks for sharing!

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Ooohhh I like this phrase "escapism as learned behavior." Thank you, Chandni

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Love Johann Hari’s stuff. All of it.

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“If there’s one thing in common across all process-oriented recovery programs from the 12 Steps to Buddhist based to more modern versions—it’s community. Those prone to addiction are sensitive beings who often feel an acute sense of outsider-ness and alienation from the culture. Recovery requires truth, love, and a warm welcome that tells a newcomer’s nervous system: you’re right where you need to be.”

Boom. Absolutely. A hundred percent 💯. I’m 12.5 years sober. Nailed it. I write about this on my stack: https://michaelmohr.substack.com/p/sobriety-and-wokeism-are-diametrically

Michael Mohr

‘Sincere American Writing’

https://michaelmohr.substack.com/

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